Instantly BOOST Your Charisma | #shorts

One of the simplest ways to increase your perceived charisma is…⁣ to PAUSE!⁣ ⁣ Studies demonstrate that charismatic people are supportive, sensitive, nurturing, and considerate. Not only that, they also exude a mysterious, almost intangible quality that’s a unique combination of quiet confidence, credibility and presence. ⁣ ⁣ When they enter a room, people look.⁣ When they talk, people want to listen.⁣ ⁣ And the best part about charisma is that you can develop it. ⁣ ⁣ One simple way to develop charisma through your presence and perceived confidence starts with how you communicate. ⁣ Next time you’re interacting with someone, see if you can pause for 2-3 seconds before responding. ⁣ ⁣ I call it the 3SP - 3 Second Pause.⁣ ⁣ Of course, you’ll still want to maintain eye contact so they know you’re paying attention, and you want to have an engaged look on your face - a blank stare will probably raise some eyebrows and might even prompt an “are you ok??”… You can even take a small breath before you speak so you ‘audience’ knows something’s coming…⁣ ⁣ This is a particularly useful skill when in interviews, on panels or when presenting in public and answering questions. ⁣ ⁣ Have you ever seen anyone use this and what did you think? ⁣ Or have you used it? How did you find it? ?⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ? ⁣ -House, R. J., & Howell, J. M. (1992). Personality and charismatic leadership. The Leadership Quarterly, 3(2), 81-108.⁣ -De Cremer, D., & Van Knippenberg, D. (2002). How do leaders promote cooperation? The effects of charisma and procedural fairness. Journal of Applied Psychology, 87(5), 858.⁣ -Tskhay, K. O., Zhu, R., Zou, C., & Rule, N. O. (2018). Charisma in everyday life: Conceptualization and validation of the General Charisma Inventory. Journal of personality and social psychology, 114(1), 131. #shorts ____________________ To find out more about Shadé, visit the website: https://www.shadezahrai.com Follow her on: • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shadezahrai/ • TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@shadezahrai • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shadezahraispeaker • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shadezahrai Join her private FB group for professional women: https://www.facebook.com/groups/neurofemina/